Asked by Anonymous
Do you prefer boys or girls (sexually) ? And have you ever been in love? Do you still have feelings for him (her) ?
I’ll preface this by saying that on principle I see no reason why I need to discuss my sexuality, or anyone else’s, gay, straight or otherwise. It’s not something visible, and therefore it is not in the business of others to judge someone by it, as they would weight or hair colour. In any case, sexuality is certainly extremely fluid for anyone, and I remain open to whatever may appeal to me.
That being said, no I have never been “in love” (I’m 18, how am I supposed to have experienced love yet, I’ve never even been in a romantic relationship).
I have had romantic feelings for girls, yes, sometimes long standing feelings, but no, never love. I notice that your preferred gender for my relationships seems to be male, with “her” in brackets contrary to convention, so I’ll also say no I’ve never had romantic feelings for a man. Or a boy, don’t be pedantic.
Please don’t send any more of these things guys, and certainly not so impolitely. It’s not your business, this is an online blog.
If you still really want to know, grow a pair and ask me to my face. Jeez.
Oliver Butcher. A personal project called ‘The Demon In My Room’ based on horror, nightmares and nostalgia.
Skeletons In Red. Gouache on paper, 16.42 cm x 15.71 cm.
Still Life. Gouache on paper, 16.18 cm x 17.09 cm.
The Demon In My Room . Gouache on paper, 19.56 cm x 29.32 cm.
Us In Red. Gouache on paper, 15.67 cm x 16.24 cm.
When I Was Younger. Gouache on paper, 21.11 cm x 19.6 cm.